As mothers, it’s natural for us to obsess over our kids’ food habits, their intake, their likes and dislikes. My concern notwithstanding, I personally didn’t want my conversations to center around food. “Khana khaya, kya khaya, kab khaya?” ……you get the drift. So subconsciously I wanted to steer clear of that stereotype. Another reason was that in the past few years, childhood obesity has become a bigger problem than nutrition. And probably our food obsession is to be blamed for that, partially at least. On one hand we advise older people to eat like children which means not to eat if we are not hungry and on the other hand we spend considerable energy in stuffing our children’s mouths for fear ki kahin hamara bachcha kamzor na reh jaaye.
The strategy of not fretting over food has worked well for us in many ways. For one, my daughter is in touch with her hunger center so even if it’s her favourite junk food, she never goes overboard. Our fridge may be spilling with chocolates and goodies but she will take only sparingly. Secondly, now as she’s growing older she feels more in charge as a decision maker. This definitely does not mean that we are taking food lightly. There have been certain ground rules that we stick to
- The rules apply to all of us, age no bar.
- Whatever’s on the plate essentially needs to be finished. No excuses, absolutely none. And that includes spinach and methi and dill leaves and all those veggies we snort at
- If we are planning to pig out we balance it with eating healthy BEFORE that meal. Because let’s face it, all of us crave for junk.
- Fox nuts and peanuts are the go-to options for snacking
- I encourage my daughter to have warm water even if she doesn’t have a sore throat. In fact, warm water seems to keep it at bay.
- I have an unshakable faith in our traditional cooking so some things just stay in our kitchen. My daughter has to have a spoonful of desi ghee (clarified butter) in every meal.
- Eat seasonal and local.
Besides the general stuff there is some specific stuff that I have recently added. We have recently moved to Hong Kong and still finding our feet. There’s a major shift in the food scene and a lot of stuff that we took for granted in India is either not available or its too expensive and the quality isn’t the same. So, we browsed through the supermarket aisles to look for potential replacements. My daughter though not picky with veggies, changes colours when it comes to fruit. Here are two recipes I have come up with, which go well with my no-fuss-cooking mantra but still makes the cut on the nutritional index.
Very Berry Smoothies
I discovered that the supermarket shelves are loaded with berries of all imaginable colours. Strawberries, raspberries, cape gooseberries, green and black grapes, blue and black berries…you name it and they have it. And though they may not have our greens, they have quite a handful of their own. They have kale, Chinese spinach, bok choy, all sorts of lettuce and what have you.
So, what do I do? I mix all the berries, add any two greens, a pinch of cinnamon powder and squeeze some lemon and blend it all with as little water as possible. Drink it without straining. If you like it colder, refrigerate it for a while, though not too long. Somehow, I am a little paranoid on consuming it fresh. You can make the same smoothies as per the regional availability. Mix any two greens and any two fruits. If its melons you are using, then stick to melons. Back home I had a soft spot for mint because I really love the flavor and curry leaves for their health benefits. You can juggle around for variety and till you hit the sweet spot.
Raw foods are rich in vitamins, minerals and antioxidants and are great for the gut while improving the oral health on the side.
Nutty Buddies
There’s another bounty that I hit upon here, and that’s the variety of nuts and seeds. Apart from pistachios we have hazelnuts, pecan, sunflower, melon and pumpkin seeds. Dry roast them and while still warm grind them with an equal amount of organic jaggery. Roll the mixture into small balls and voila we have laddus that pack a mean punch.
As I am on my discovery trail, much to the despair of my daughter, I hope I’ll keep coming with more such stuff. So, let’s watch this space for more. To Happy and healthy eating……….
May I thank Shipra Trivedi for introducing me. She is chronicling her journey as a working mother while she juggles between family and office. you can read what she writes on www.vibhuandme.com
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I love your berries and green smoothie idea. I am going to try that for sure. Thanks for joining in the blog party. Also you are lot like me when it comes to having ghee daily and ‘jo plate mein hain woh khana hai’! No excuses!
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Thank you. It’s always lovely to meet people whose thoughts echo yours. The poor innocent ghee unnecessarily gets the bad rep. I feel for it.
Do try the smoothies. You feel refreshed and Noble, having treated your body to healthy stuff
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Shivani, though I make vegetable juice at home, my daughter doesn’t appreciate it. I liked the idea of berry smoothie – winter is approaching, will try this time with her. I am sure she will love it. I make ladoos of various kinds, but this one seems easier, will try nuts ladoos. 🙂
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Thank you Anshu. I am a very no fuss person. Very tedious recipes wear me out. Hence the quick fixes
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I so agree with your strategy of not going overboard with concerns over food for our kids. But sometimes, it definitely is a cause of concern if you know your child is a picky eater. Yet, I really found your tips to be very useful.
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Thank you. Even the pickiest of them have their favorites. Don’t give up on them. Sometimes they just need small helpings at frequent intervals.
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Interesting post… I loved the tips especially eat seasonal and local. I see many people spending lots of money on exotic fruits and vegetables to follow a particular diet. In summers, mangoes are not consumed to maintain weight. This myth has to be broken.
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Exactly my point. Its like Ghar ki murgi. Value your own produce and consume it
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What an innovative idea Shivani. I’m going to try this healthy yet delicious smoothie for my son. Thanks for sharing!
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Oh yes. Please do. I have seen a perceptible change in my daughter
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Prerna thank you. I shall wait to hear from you on the feedback
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Innovative ideas, i liked the berries smoothie most..
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Thank you. In my personal experience it’s the most palatable health drink. And it allows so much flexibility
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Very practical tips Shivani. Loved reading your post. I agree with all your points. Be it balance, eating seasonal
produce or your take on traditional food.
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Thank you Kalpana. You are an inspiration on this one
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Thank you Shivani. So kind of you to say that…we can learn a lot from each other ❤️❤️
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Just look at that, its simple yummy and so healthy. I am bookmarking this recipe right away and going to make it first thing tomorrow for daughter.
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Thank you Dipika. I shall look forward to hearing from you
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Laddus made of nuts. Sounds exciting. It must have taken a lot of adjustment to come to terms with new food habits in HongKong. Good thing that you have a daughter who is so adaptible.
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Adaptation in terms of family and friends is tough. In terms of food, all Indian stuff is available but I feel we should experiment with what’s available locally
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berry smoothies, nutty buddies
these names are sure to catch my kiddos interest too
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Ha ha. Yes Pragun, that’s the idea. Selling it to kids becomes easier
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Wow that’s awesome, I loved all yours ideas specially the smoothie one
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Thank you so much.
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I love your rule to finish everything on the plate as I’m very particular about that myself.
Smoothies are a great idea to make kids have fruits. Will try them myself.
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Oh yes. Food wastage makes us cringe. Do try the smoothies for yourself too. They are great for gut health
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Like the idea of starting with warm water. Should be really helpful at times!
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Yes. And every time you have an ice cream,drink warm water after it. This keeps sore throat at bay
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Loved your ideas about consuming desi ghee everyday & keeping moderation & sanity always intact while making decisions of food for the family.
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i have recently taken a dive in the nuts world and that laddoo looks like heaven to me right now!
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Go right in. It’s energy packed and you can have them too. I make very small ones so I can also have them
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